New Life Live With Steve Arterburn

Topics: Self Care, Highly Sensitive People, Intimacy, Empty Nest, Procrastination, Depression, Counseling, Suicide, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton Caller Questions: Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about Self Care (how to love and accept yourself and lower comparison).  I am an extreme empath and get overstimulated around people; do you have any tips for upcoming events?  After three kids, my wife The post New Life Live: May 17, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Boundaries, Drug Addiction, Divorce, Forgiveness, Affairs, Same-Sex Attraction, Parenting Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about Travel and Adventure (a perspective change that a time away can provide).  When is it time to take care of me instead of my brother with a severe crack addiction?  I’m going through a divorce but want The post New Life Live: May 16, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Screens, Perseverance, Intimacy, Counseling, Perspective, Avoiders, Siblings, Parenting Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice Benton shares about Family Screen Agreements for the summer. Do we need marriage counseling or individual counselors? My husband has left the marriage emotionally and we live like roommates.  Train yourself to search for the silver lining, no matter the The post New Life Live: May 15, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Fear, Christian Walk, Aging Parents, Guilt, Abandonment, Anxiety, ADD Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: Fear and faith cannot occupy the same space in your brain at the same time.  How can I deal with the guilt of not taking care of my mother in her old age? I am already caring for my elderly father-in-law.  My dad claimed The post New Life Live: May 14, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Judgment, Compromise, In-laws, Boundaries, Christian Walk, Sex Offenders Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice Benton shares about Attribution Bias (when we judge others by their actions and judge ourselves by our intentions).  My spouse wants to spend more time in the south for the winter, but I don't; do you have any suggestions?  The post New Life Live: May 13, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Grandparenting, Eating Disorders, Teens, Christian Walk, Engagement, Enmeshment, Difficult Conversations, Self-Worth Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares how We Can Do All Things Through Christ.  My 12yo grandson has a serious eating disorder and my son won't talk to me anymore.  When it comes to tithing, are we under the New Covenant or Old The post New Life Live: May 10, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Avoiders, Finances, Christian Walk, Gambling, Sexual Abuse, Same-Sex Attraction, Secrets Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: Dr. Jill Hubbard shares about Pathological Demand Avoidance.  What’s going on with my life at 57yo? It seems like the harder I work, the more things go wrong.  Should I go out of town if I feel shame for my gambling addiction and The post New Life Live: May 9, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Character, Intimacy, Betrayal, Counseling, Adult Children, ADD, Pregnancy, Sexual Integrity Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions & More: Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris shares about Knowing Our Values.  If my 12yr marriage has never been consummated, do I have grounds for a divorce?  What type of therapy works best for betrayal trauma?  How can I deal with my adult The post New Life Live: May 8, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Addictions, Surrender, Aging Parents, Affairs, Remarriage, Christian Walk, Suicide, Chronic Illness Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron, JJ West Caller Questions: JJ West shares about The Serenity Prayer and Unexpected Disappointment.  How do I deal with my elderly father who says he will no longer want to live after his significant other dies?  I struggle with flashbacks from discovering my husband had an The post New Life Live: May 7, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Anxiety, Intimacy, Sex Addiction, Boundaries, Vacillators, Scams Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton, JJ West Caller Questions & More: Dr. Alice Benton shares about Separation Anxiety Disorder.  How do I understand my emotions so I can love my wife how she needs to be loved? We had an argument last night.  My nephew struggles with sex addiction; what are my boundaries The post New Life Live: May 6, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Affairs, Trust, Friendship, People Pleasers, Adult Children, Boundaries, Anxiety Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: How do I start looking forward instead of looking back? My husband had an affair several years ago, and he still lies. Why do I find myself in friendships with people who do all the talking and don't ask anything about my life? The post New Life Live: May 2, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Separation, Emotional Affairs, Same-Sex Attraction, Abandonment, Childhood Trauma, Getting Unstuck, Sexual Addiction Hosts: Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: My wife started making false accusations about me having an emotional affair with a woman from church and left me; should I keep pursuing or move on?  My friend is in the LGBTQ community and wants to go The post New Life Live: May 1, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Affairs, Divorce, Adult Children, Estrangement, Bipolar, Teens, Grandparenting, Boundaries, Self-Harm, Intimacy Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: My wife had affairs and then turned my sons against me when she divorced me. Since she passed away and my sons think she’s a saint, how do I reconnect with them?  I’m almost 70yo and bipolar and have done ECT, but the The post New Life Live: April 30, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Affairs, Adult Children, Finances, Physical Abuse, Forgiveness, Blended Families Hosts: Marc Cameron, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: Is it worth it to reconcile with my unfaithful husband? We've been married three times and divorced twice, but he continues to be unfaithful.  My family has uninvited my husband to a $5,000 vacation we paid for because they want me The post New Life Live: April 29, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Guilt, Adult Children, Aging Parents, End of Life, Caregiving, Christian Walk, Grief, Childhood Trauma Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Chris Williams Caller Questions: Am I experiencing true guilt or false guilt after my son with mental illness ran away from his group home?  We moved my 92yo mother to a care facility with a shared room. What can I say when she The post New Life Live: May 3, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Trust, Grief, Childhood Trauma, Christian Walk, Alcohol, Attachment Style Hosts: Becky, Brown Dr. Alice Benton, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: How do I trust people again and keep going after my husband asked me to leave, my mom passed, I was homeless, and I drank a bottle of vodka a day?  My mom tried to drown me and my dad played Russian The post New Life Live: April 26, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Miscarriages, Grief, Anxiety, Teens, Sexual Integrity, Making Decisions Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Alice Benton, Chris Williams Caller Questions: My daughter has had four miscarriages and two stillbirths; how do I find some words to say to her?  How do I support my 17yo daughter with her social anxiety before she goes to college?  I lost my wife of 20yrs at Thanksgiving; The post New Life Live: April 25, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Anger, Verbal Abuse, Adult Children, Boundaries, Finances, Drug Addiction, Pornography Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Jim Burns Caller Questions: How do I handle my adult son who gets angry and yells at me for hours?  My sister took guardianship of our niece but is using the money for herself; how do I oppose her if she is blaming us in The post New Life Live: April 24, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Estrangement, Adult Children, Betrayal, Borderline, Physical Abuse, Anger Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West Caller Questions: My four adult children no longer talk to me after I bashed their mom, but I've forgiven her for divorcing me 30yrs ago.  How can I get beyond my family who turned my daughter against me as she was dying from cancer?  I filed The post New Life Live: April 23, 2024 appeared first on New Life.

Topics: Brain Issues, Bipolar, Grandparenting, Anxiety, Trust, End of Life, Adult Children Hosts: Becky Brown, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron Caller Questions: What kind of help do I need for brain trauma from football and bipolar disorder?  How do we help our 11yo granddaughter who is struggling after her mom's surgeries and extended hospital stay?  What boundaries can I put in place for my The post New Life Live: April 22, 2024 appeared first on New Life.